The #1 Sign You May Be Missing From Your Departed Loved Ones
Do you wonder if your departed loved ones are trying to make contact with you, but you’re missing it?
Are the holidays a bit more tender for you, because someone you love isn’t (physically) around?
Do you question if you’re getting signs from them, or if it’s your imagination?
Have you experienced the physical/material signs, like coins, butterflies, birds, feathers, etc?
What’s beyond that?
As you may know, my sweet Daddy made the transition from his physical body a few years ago. I wanted to share something that happened this week, to support you in noticing when your loved ones are contributing in your life.
My father experienced a stroke (among other things) when he was 50 years old. At that time he lost his short term memory. He started keeping little notebooks in his pocket so he could try to keep up with what was happening in his world.
When my dad made his transition in 2021, his camera bag went to my son, Wolf. This Tuesday, Wolf was going through my dad’s camera bag for the first time.
As he gently took every camera and lens out of the bag, he came upon one of my dad’s little notebooks from 2002-2003.
In it, my sweet Daddy’s handwriting, as he struggled with not being able to remember what happened each day and what he’d been told his schedule would be.
*** If you’ve lost someone and then found their handwriting on something, you know how much of their ENERGY that holds! ***
Immediately Wolf handed me the notebook, and as I held it…sensing so much of my Daddy’s presence…I opened it to a random page to read his notes about what was happening that week.
It was December of 2003, and it’s all about his kids and grandkids…
Sun, Dec 12, Morgan’s Christmas Concert in N.O. @ 3:00 PM
17th - Sue babysits Zoe in PM
18th - Sat - We keep the little ones, ADM & Guy @ Xmas party in B.R.
Sunday Dec 19 - Garrett’s 1st birthday party here
and so on…
That’s when I fixed on that one:
Sunday Dec 19 - Garrett’s 1st birthday party here
I was thinking about my nephew Garrett and how much he loved being with his Pawpaw.
And it hit me
Wait - TODAY is December 19th — it’s Garrett’s birthday and I forgot! And it’s a biggie - he’s 20 today!
Thank you, Daddy 💖
This brings us to the #1 sign you may be missing from your departed loved ones.
The #1 way our loved ones let us know THEY ARE STILL HERE is through the energies of inspiration and subtle influence.
For example
Inspiration/Influence #1: My father inspired my son to dig out that camera bag on December 19th and start exploring what’s inside (after 2 years of it sitting in the back of the closet).
Inspiration/Influence #2: I “randomly” opened the notebook that he found to a “random” page.
Inspiration/Influence #3: My heart expanded and my reading stopped at Sunday Dec 19 - Garrett’s 1st birthday party here
What a gentle, sweet, subtle way to remind me that it was Garrett’s birthday - the day was almost over - and I better call him right now or be “that aunt” who forgets birthdays! LOL …and of course that he’s still celebrating all of us. Still just as an important part of the family as he always was, when he was here in physical form.
• Have you “randomly” turned on a TV show to see someone say a phrase that your loved one used to always say?
• Are there times when you’re thinking about a loved one or just missing them, and you have a major AHA moment?
• If you have a problem, do you sometimes have the solution just pop into your mind…and then you think, I bet that’s how so-and-so would fix this…
• Have you been missing a loved one, and then gone into a store and their favorite song is playing in the store?
THIS IS NOT RANDOM!
Our loved ones are STILL HERE. They’re in a different non-physical form, but most of them desire to still be part of our lives, in the ways that they can now.
They’re not longing to be in a body!
They are most often staying connected, offering opportunities for us to establish or re-establish loving communion with them, often through inspiration and subtle influence.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Subtle influence is not control or manipulation. It’s the offering of a subtle suggestion of energy, like the energy of “would it be fun to turn left at this light and hop into that store for a moment?” or “is it time to clean out that closet?” or “what if I randomly open this notebook to any page?”
Many times we shrug off these inspirations and subtle influences…but sometimes we don’t.
My suggestions:
→ When you have these types of moments, acknowledge.
→ Take a moment to say “Thank You!” and “I Get It!” every time.
You may have no idea how much this means to those who’ve gone before us.
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With love and in joy,
Alyssa
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